Cougar??

So,there is the guy who works the for gym that I attend. He is so cute to me. Anyway we never really had a conversation. Of course I told my bf about him and she was like talk to him. So, yesterday when I walked in he instantly started a conversation with me. We were talking and flirting. During this time he made a comment about what I was wearing and I said I should come here more often dress liked this if you gonna say stuff like that. Once I made this comment he proceeded to walk over to the computer and he said, only if I was 5 years older, I'm only 22. He thinks I'm old. After that comment I changed the subject and made my exit. I told my friend about it and she was like he thinks you are a cougar.

What are thoughts of cougars? Older women and younger men? Plus, when did people start seeing 30 as being old?



Another tidbit.......

I have a male friend, lets name him Cook Boy cause he likes to cook. Anyway Cook Boy and I pretty good friends we hang out but the thing is, is that he wants to be more than friends. We have discussed this on several occasions and we came to an agreement that we would be friends. Ok, so fast forward to today we are having a conversation about my hair and he proceeds to ask me if I shave, I respond with no I don't that is what my beautician is for, he says no not that, you know what I am talking about. I got extremely angry by this comment. I was like that is none of your fucking business. We are suppose to be friends and friends only, I don't answer questions like that from my friends especially male friends. Did I over react? Maybe, maybe not. Thoughts or comments???

Deuces...........